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What You Do Matters Speaking of Purpose
Now 27 years old and with a wife and daughter as well as plans to pursue his education, Giunta said that speaking to groups about his experience is “what I’m doing now.” As you might imagine, he talked about valuing our freedom and how the military taught him to look out for the person “to your left and to your right,” knowing they were doing the same for him. Giunta was compelling in the delivery of his core message: that it is up to us to make a positive difference, a change large or small. “I want to let people know that what they do matters. We have it in us to choose direction in life.” We Have It In Us It was striking to hear these words from someone who had a traumatic brush with death. For most of us who do not have such close encounters, it is easy to forget that we have it in us to choose our direction. When we do remember, we can become more afraid of choosing incorrectly than of missing out on a potential opportunity. The reality is that we are choosing all the time. We choose and choose again throughout our entire lives. At the conference where Giunta spoke, as well as at other recent social events, several people shared with me that they have certain inklings about new directions to pursue. I find it interesting that whether the person was college age or in their 50s, the feelings described were similar: curiosity about a particular direction and excitement about what could be possible, combined with anxiety about making the right choice. One woman told me it had been two years since her boys had graduated college and moved out of the house. After enthusiastically describing several interests, she admitted that fear keeps her from genuinely pursuing any one activity in depth. She wondered if having so many ideas meant that none of them were strong enough to have potential or to hold her interest in the long run. After learning that I’m a coach, she asked me a familiar question: As a coach, what do you tell people? Choose Your Direction There are no magic answers. What I’ve learned personally and in witnessing my clients’ lives continue to unfold is that it’s important to pay attention to the ideas that cross your mind, especially the ones that keep coming back to you. The value is not always in that specific, literal idea but in where that idea takes you. While some courage, compromise, and patience may be necessary, it’s often not as complicated as it appears. As you explore and look into your ideas, the choice becomes clearer. This Week’s Call to Action:
Sal Giunta, thank you for your service, and for sharing your inspiring message: What you do matters. You have it in you to choose your direction in life. Here's to you, Notes: |
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Last
week while attending a conference in Orange County, California,
my husband and I had the opportunity to hear a profound and inspiring
message delivered by Sal Giunta, the first living person since
the Vietnam War to be awarded the Medal of Honor¹. It seemed
both cathartic and painful for Giunta to recount the events that
transpired, including the loss of one of his best friends, Sergeant
Joshua Brennan. Though uncomfortable with being singled out to
receive the honor, Giunta has accepted the responsibility that
comes with being a Medal of Honor recipient.
Virginia
Kravitz, Career
and Life Coach, has always
had a fierce desire to be
in the full current of life.
She founded 