Rob Brezsny's Astrology Newsletter
Rob Brezsny's Astrology Newsletter
February 10, 2016
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Below are excerpts.
ELATIONSHIP LOVE SPELLS FOR BEAUTY & TRUTH LAB ALLIES
The Beauty and Truth Lab's rapturists have formulated a batch of
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"Everyone carries with them at least one piece to someone else's puzzle."
So wrote Lawrence Kushner in his book, *Honey from the Rock.*
In other words, you have in your possession certain clues to your loved
ones' destinies -- secrets they haven't discovered themselves.
Wouldn't you love to hand over those clues -- to make a gift of the puzzle
pieces that are most needed by the people you care about?
Search your depths for insights you've never communicated. Tell truths
you haven't found a way to express before now. More than you know, you
have the power to mobilize your companions' dreams.
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You understand that you can never own love, right? No matter how much
someone adores you today, no matter how much you adore someone,
you can't force that unique state of grace to keep its shape forever. It will
inevitably evolve or mutate, perhaps into a different version of tender
caring, but maybe not.
From there it will continue to change, into either yet another version of
interesting affection, or who knows what else?
Are you making any progress in getting the hang of this tricky wisdom?
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I invite you to act like a person who's in love. Even if you're not currently
in the throes of passion for a special someone, pretend you are.
Everywhere you go, exude that charismatic blend of shell-shocked
contentment and blissful turmoil that comes over you when you're
infatuated. Let everyone you meet soak up the delicious wisdom you
exude. Dispense free blessings and extra slack like a rich saint high on
natural endorphins.
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Imagine that the merger of you and your best ally has created a third
thing that hovers near you, protecting and guiding the two of you. Call
this third thing an angel. Or call it the soul of your connection or the
inspirational force of your relationship. Or call it the special work the two
of you can accomplish together. And let this magical presence be the
third point of your love triangle.
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"For a relationship to stay alive, love alone is not enough. Without
imagination, love stales into sentiment, duty, boredom. Relationships fail
not because we have stopped loving but because we first stopped
imagining."
- James Hillman
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Gertrude Stein defined love as "the skillful audacity required to share an
inner life." It suggests that expressing the truth about who you are is not
something that amateurs do very well. Practice and ingenuity are
required.
It also implies that courage is an essential element of successful intimacy.
You've got to be adventurous if you want to weave your life together
with another's.
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"You are my inspiration and my folly. You are my light across the sea, my
million nameless joys, and my day's wage. You are my divinity, my
madness, my selfishness, my transfiguration and purification. You are my
rapscallionly fellow vagabond, my tempter and star. I want you."
- George Bernard Shaw
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Whenever I write about romance and togetherness, I attract a storm of
complaints from readers who are solitary. "How dare you imply that
everyone has or should have a partner!?" is a typical protest. "I'm quite
content being alone!" is another.
Let it be known that I do not believe your happiness depends on having a
spouse or lover. What I do suspect, though, is that your soul needs some
sacred relationship in order to thrive, whether it's with a good friend, a
beloved animal, a beautiful patch of earth, the Divine Wow, or anything
that's not you.
Whenever I invite you to seek deeper, wilder communion, feel free to
interpret it as a call to explore any kind of intimacy that draws you closer
to the secret heart of the world.
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"The Orgasmic Roots of Pronoia" is one of the few NC-17-rated pieces in
my book. If I published it here, it might get censored, so here's a link:
http://bit.ly/OrgasmicRoots
NSFW! PROCEED WITH CAUTION! This material has graphic references to
love, lust, tenderness, bliss, and rapture.
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MORE PRONOIA RESOURCES:
Women are better at expressing emotions, right? It's not that simple.
P.S.: Deeper listening is the key to healthier, more engaged lives.
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How Brazilian Women Are Using Graffiti to End the Cycle of Domestic
Violence. From street art to law reform, women across Brazil are taking a
stand against gender-based violence.
http://tinyurl.com/jz5w49u
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Big Oil and Gas Want Them Out, But One Small Clan Is Standing Up to
Pipeline Expansion. A First Nations clan is bringing pipeline projects to a
grinding halt—simply by occupying their traditional lands.
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(Note: I endorse these because I like them. They aren't advertisements,
and I get no kickbacks.)
Please tell me your own nominations for PRONOIA RESOURCES.
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FREE WILL ASTROLOGY
Week beginning February 11
Copyright 2016 by Rob Brezsny
http://www.freewillastrology.com/horoscopes/
Grammar key: Asterisks equal *italics*
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): "We all have the potential to fall in love a
thousand times in our lifetime," writes Chuck Klosterman. "It's easy. But
there are certain people you love who do something else; they define how
you classify what love is supposed to feel like. You'll meet maybe four or
five of these people over the span of 80 years." He concludes, "A lover
like this sets the template for what you will always love about other
people." I suspect that you have either recently met or will soon meet
such a person, Aquarius. Or else you are on the verge of going deeper
than ever before with an ally you have known for a while. That's why I
think what happens in the next six months will put an enduring stamp on
your relationship with intimacy.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Sixteenth-century Italian poet Torquato Tasso
described one of love's best blessings. He said your lover can reunite you
with "a piece of your soul that you never knew was missing." You
Pisceans are in a phase when this act of grace is more possible than usual.
The revelatory boon may emerge because of the chemistry stirred up by
a sparkly new affiliation. Or it may arise thanks to a familiar relationship
that is entering unfamiliar territory.
ARIES (March 21-April 19): "Love is a fire," declared Aries actress Joan
Crawford. "But whether it's going to warm your hearth or burn down your
house, you can never tell." I disagree with her conclusion. There are
practical steps you can take to ensure that love's fire warms but doesn't
burn. Start with these strategies: Suffuse your libido with compassion.
Imbue your romantic fervor with empathy. Instill your animal passions and
instinctual longings with affectionate tenderness. If you catch your sexual
urges driving you toward narcissists who are no damn good for you, firmly
redirect those sexual urges toward emotionally intelligent, self-responsible
beauties.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Fifteenth-century writer Thomas à Kempis
thought that real love can arouse enormous fortitude in the person who
loves. "Love feels no burden," he wrote. "It attempts what is above its
strength, pleads no excuse of impossibility; for it thinks all things lawful
for itself, and all things possible." As you might imagine, the "real love" he
was referring to is not the kind that's motivated by egotism, power
drives, blind lust, or insecurity. I think you know what I mean, Taurus,
because in the past few months you have had unprecedented access to
the primal glory that Thomas referred to. And in the coming months you
will have even more. What do you plan to do with all that mojo?
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Gemini novelist Elizabeth Bowen (1899-1973)
was fascinated in "life with the lid on and what happens when the lid
comes off." She knew both states from her own experience. "When you
love someone," she mused about the times the lid had come off, "all your
saved-up wishes start coming out." In accordance with the astrological
omens, I propose that you engage in the following three-part exercise.
First, identify a part of your life that has the lid tightly clamped over it.
Second, visualize the suppressed feelings and saved-up wishes that might
pour forth if you took the lid off. Third, do what it takes to love someone
so well that you'll knock the lid off.
CANCER (June 21-July 22): "No one has ever loved anyone the way
everyone wants to be loved," wrote author Mignon McLaughlin. I think
that may be true. The gap between what we yearn for and what we
actually get is never fully closed. Nevertheless, I suggest that you strive
to refute McLaughlin's curse in the coming days. Why? Because you now
have an enhanced capacity to love the people you care about in ways
they want to be loved. So be experimental with your tenderness. Take the
risk of going beyond what you've been willing or able to give before. Trust
your fertile imagination to guide your ingenious empathy.
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YOU NEED MAGIC EVERY DAY
Every day, you have to wade through a relentless surge of soul-less facts.
The experience tends to shut down your sense of wonder.
Every day, you're over-exposed to cynical narratives that have been
sucked free of delight and mystery. That's why you have to make such
strenuous efforts to keep your world enchanted.
I like to think I can contribute to the sacred cause of feeding your sense
of wonder and enchantment. In fact, that's one of my prime motivations
for offering you the free weekly horoscopes you read in this newsletter.
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LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Here's the counsel of French writer Anatole
France: "You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by
running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by
loving." What he says is always true, but it's especially apropos for you
Leos in the coming weeks. You now have a special talent for learning more
about love by loving deeply, excitedly, and imaginatively. To add further
nuance and inspiration, meditate on this advice from author Aldous
Huxley: "There isn't any formula or method. You learn to love by loving --
by paying attention and doing what one thereby discovers has to be
done."
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): "I do not trust people who don't love
themselves and yet tell me, 'I love you,'" said author Maya Angelou. She
concludes: "There is an African saying: Be careful when a naked person
offers you a shirt." With this in mind, I invite you to take inventory of the
allies and relatives whose relationships are most important to you. How
well do they love themselves? Is there anything you could do to help
them upgrade their love for themselves? If their self-love is lacking, what
might you do to protect yourself from that problem?
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): "Only love interests me," declared painter Marc
Chagall, "and I am only in contact with things that revolve around love."
That seems like an impossibly high standard. Our daily adventures bring us
into proximity with loveless messes all the time. It's hard to focus on love
to the exclusion of all other concerns. But it's a worthy goal to strive
toward Chagall's ideal for short bursts of time. And the coming weeks
happen to be a favorable phase for you to do just that. Your success may
be partial, but dramatic nonetheless.
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): "A coward is incapable of exhibiting love,"
said Mahatma Gandhi. "It is the prerogative of the brave." That's my
challenge to you, Scorpio. In accordance with the astrological currents, I
urge you to stoke your uninhibited audacity so you can press onward
toward the frontiers of intimacy. It's not enough to be wilder, and it's not
enough to be freer. To fulfill love's potential in the next chapter of your
story, you've got to be wilder, freer, and bolder.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): "It is not lack of love but lack of
friendship that makes unhappy marriages," said Friedrich Nietzsche. He
believed that if you want to join your fortunes with another's, you should
ask yourself whether you will enjoy your conversations with this person
for the next 30 years -- because that's what you'll be doing much of the
time you're together. How do you measure up to this gold standard,
Sagittarius? What role does friendship play in your romantic adventures?
If there's anything lacking, now is an excellent time to seek
improvements. Start with yourself, of course. How could you infuse more
camaraderie into the way you express love? What might you do to
upgrade your skills as a conversationalist?
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): "Love isn't something you find," says
singer Loretta Lynn. "Love is something that finds you." Singer Kylie
Minogue concurs: "You need a lot of luck to find people with whom you
want to spend your life. Love is like a lottery." I think these perspectives
are at best misleading, and at worst debilitating. They imply we have no
power to shape our relationship with love. My view is different. I say
there's a lot we can do to attract intimate allies who teach us, stimulate
us, and fulfill us. Like what? 1. We clarify what qualities we want in a
partner, and we make sure that those qualities are also healthy for us. 2.
We get free of unconscious conditioning that's at odds with our conscious
values. 3. We work to transform ourselves into lovable collaborators who
communicate well. Anything else? What can you do to make sure love
isn't a lottery?
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Homework: Want some inspiration as you compose your romantic
invitations? Go here: http://bit.ly/LoveAd
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